I want advice on how the situation looks from the outside. My friend decided to pay for her eldest son’s education with maternity capital, since he did not qualify for the budget and scored too few points. But this capital is enough to pay for only three and a half courses out of five! It is unlikely that he will be able to switch to a budget, his studies are so-so despite tutors, and he chose a very difficult field related to jurisprudence, where everything is a top priority, but he doesn’t want to and doesn’t know how. The feeling that you won’t finish your studies and that your money will be wasted. And the middle daughter graduates from school in three years, and there are also not enough stars in the sky. The probability of receipt on the budget is very low. That is, it turns out that by paying for her son’s education, my friend is depriving her daughter of a normal education! Not to mention my youngest son, who is still very young. I feel very bad for the girl.
What would you do if you were your mother? Would you pay for the education of only one child? Will the rest kind of get over it? Or would you divide the maternity capital among three? But then it will be a very small amount for everyone; not enough for a full course of study.
Alla Chervintseva
The situation is this: my mother-in-law lives separately (my husband, her son, rents an apartment for her) and comes to visit a couple of times a month to sit with her grandchildren for a few hours. So this time, I had to go to the hospital with the eldest, she stayed with the youngest. When I returned, my mother-in-law was already in a hurry and on the threshold she told me that an electrician had come and changed the wiring in our panel - and she left. I didn’t really have time to ask anything and called her about this in the evening - what kind of electrician, what kind of wiring? It turned out that a certain guy came and introduced himself as an electrician from Mosenergo with a scheduled check of panels on a common site. And of course, our panel was “in terrible condition, the wiring had turned black and generally needed to be changed urgently, otherwise there would be a fire, you heard, there was a fire in the panel next door and several floors burned down because of it! And of course, only today there are discounts for pensioners blah blah blah.” In general, they zombified my grandmother, and she paid 3,000 rubles for a replacement. By the way, she does not work, she lives on a pension and the money that her sons (my husband and his brother) give her.
To say that I was blown away after listening to this would be an understatement. Not only is this a clean water supply (I googled it - replacing that thing in the panel costs a maximum of 200 rubles), but this is not even her apartment at all! Why does she decide such things not in her apartment, and without consulting anyone at all! In general, I was on edge and scolded her, repeating several times so that she would never do that again. To which she burst into tears into the phone, called me ungrateful, that she wanted the best, but I don’t appreciate that she would never show any initiative again and hung up. Well, then she called my husband and complained about me that she didn’t expect such a tone from me and that I really offended her.
I must say that my relationship with my mother-in-law is very good, she really helps me a lot, sometimes she sits with the children and helps me out, I have no other helpers. And I really appreciate her very much, but this incident just unsettled me.
The husband asks to call his mother and apologize to her. He talked to her and she realized that it was a scam and that it was her mistake. And it seems like we need to make peace, but I’m also offended, what should I apologize for - what was the harshness? Maybe. But in this situation, I can’t imagine how I could have behaved differently, and he says no thanks for such “help.” And now I don’t know whether to call or not to call? I don’t want to raise this topic with this divorce. But I don’t know how to reconcile.
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I’ve been wanting to talk to my 12-year-old daughter about THIS for a long time. Honestly, I wouldn’t talk to her at all because of this, but there are reasons for this (or I would talk to her later). I really hit all sorts of people with my frostbitten head (pedophiles and others). There is so much about them on the Internet and on TV that I have a real fear. My daughter is too naive and it doesn’t matter that she’s 165 cm tall and will never give you 12 years. I observed such a scene (I couldn’t call her because I was far away, and my child was sleeping in the stroller). She went with 4 boys aged 12-15 to drink water at a water pump (this is in the village). I see them often, 1 boy is our neighbor’s brother. But this will not change the essence. I talked to my daughter that there was no need to go with them. That something bad could happen from this. That they could be raped or abused. Honestly, I don’t know if I did the right thing or not. This situation just happens more than once. She started walking outside at the age of 9. Previously, I rarely walked alone (I sat on a bench), now from morning to evening I am with my friends. If they told her that your mother is dying there, let’s run to bed, then she would run (of course, she loves me). She and I talked that if something happens, there’s no one you don’t know, there’s nowhere to go, someone from your family will find you if anything happens. Even the boys are already asking her to meet, they even gave her a rose just like that. She said that we are children, how can we meet? She always tells me everything. But that's it for now. In general, have you talked to your children (especially your daughters) about this??? And How?? I can do it. I do not know how to say. I start talking and get stunned. My friend’s 10-year-old daughter found out that her parents were having sex (she didn’t see it). Her friends told her. The child became hysterical and screamed that her mom and dad don’t do this kind of thing. My daughter recently asked me what [removed by moderator] was. She said eating it is the same as having sex. There were no more questions. But sex never knows this
Spouses Rita Dakota and Vlad Sokolovsky exclusively told the site how their lives changed with the birth of Mia.
Photo: Jaroslav Kloos Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota
Musicians became parents. The baby, whom the happy parents named Mia, completely changed their lives. And, as the artists themselves admit, for the better. Rita and Vlad exclusively told the site how their life was going in their new status and introduced their baby to the public. Meet Mia! In this photo the girl is only two weeks old.
The artists did not lie: they, like all parents, experience difficulties, but for them all the troubles are pleasant moments that they will remember with a smile.
Rita: We try to somehow treat lack of sleep and some difficulties with humor. And we understand that this fate - colic, teeth and everything else - awaits everyone.
Celebrity parents say that they are creating new difficulties for themselves. For example, they flew to Bali for several months with their newborn child. And now they have become real professionals in the field of “family holidays”. In their vlogs on YouTube, the couple proves by their own example that even after becoming parents, you can remain mobile and productive.
Vlad: I can immediately say that traveling with a baby is not very convenient. When you fly with a two or three month old baby, you take with you food, diapers, a stroller, all sorts of sun loungers, toys... A huge number of things! We took the minimum for ourselves and the maximum for her.
We flew away with a child who is two and a half months old, and will return when she is four and a half. These are three different clothing sizes! Mia has a lot more stuff than we do
Since Vlad and Rita, not only their lifestyle has changed, but also their internal perception of the world. They have become more reverent, sensitive and responsible.
Vlad: You worry constantly... Sometimes stupid thoughts creep into your head. Here you are holding a child in your arms, everything is fine, your feet are on the ground and everything is fine, but some thought appears in your head: “What if you’re about to slip.” And then you start to beat yourself up, even though everything is fine.
Rita: Increased vigilance mode is activated. Even on such rare evenings when Vlad and I can go somewhere in the evening to hang out, like on the island of Bali (you can see it in one of our vlogs). Once we were at a Leningrad concert and drank wine. Everyone was drunk, but we were not. We drank several glasses, but we didn’t have any in either eye, because the vigilance mode turned on.
Despite their immense love for their child, Rita and Vlad continue to engage in their projects, household chores and creativity. In part, Mia helped her parents learn how to properly plan their day.
Rita: We have become more organized in terms of time management. Previously, we could spread out all our work for the whole day, come home between tasks to eat or do something else. Now we are trying to draw up a schedule for the day so that in the first half of the day we have time to do the maximum number of things and spend the second half with the child completely. But, of course, grandmothers save. God bless them.
Now the artists have already gained experience and can share it with other young parents. Vlad, for example, now knows everything about strollers. However, this was not always the case. Some moments really surprised the couple as they prepared for their new status.
Rita: There are some little things that you never think about. For me, for example, it was a great discovery that a newborn baby does not need a pillow. It seemed to me that I needed something softer and more comfortable, but it turned out that the pillow for a newborn is dangerous.
Or, for example, the most difficult moment for us in everyday child care is cutting nails. In the family, we use rock-paper-scissors to decide who will do it, because everyone is afraid of taking some wrong step.
Rita and Vlad can undoubtedly be called parents of the year. A warm atmosphere reigns in their family, and they share this warmth with fans in their vlogs on the YouTube channel “Sokolovsky & Dakota” and on Instagram every day. They are honest about what is really going on in their lives. Like all people, sometimes they break down. A tearful Rita picks up a camera and talks about failures... But this, as the artists themselves say, is real life, without embellishment.
Rita: We are learning to re-adapt to our freedom, because it looks a little different now. But it's actually cool! This is growth, definitely. We have become better, we have become stronger. This is a very cool stage, and we are grateful to the Universe for it.
Married couple Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota became parents. On October 23, 2018, there was an addition to their family: Rita Dakota gave birth to a girl named Mia. First of all, it is worth noting that the child was born completely healthy. Currently, the young mother and father are incredibly happy about this event, for which they have been preparing for a long time. The birth of the daughter of Rita Dakota and Vlad Sokolovsky became known only today, information was obtained from the parents’ social networks.
Latest news from the life of Rita Dakota
It became known that the star couple Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota became parents for the first time. This incredible event became for many fans the moment when they learned the whole truth, since Vlad and Rita kept the baby’s gender a secret until the last day. The girl's name is Mia, all this became known from a blog in which the parents shared such good news.
At the initial medical examination, an ultrasound showed that the sex of the unborn child was male. Already at that time, the name was invented - Max, which both parents really liked. But the second time, an ultrasound showed that the gender was already female, since the fetus was already more mature.
Photo from Instagram of Vlad Sokolovsky
It became reliably known at the end of spring that the couple was expecting their first child. In May, the expectant parents informed all their fans about their new baby. The young people were incredibly happy about what was happening in their lives at that very moment. It was also noted that all the bright events in their family life took place on the island of Bali.
Life before the birth of my daughter
Rita Dakota gave birth to a daughter on October 23, but announced this only two days later. On June 3, 2015, Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota officially became husband and wife. This was the result of a long period of their friendship, which later developed into a romantic relationship and true love. Currently, videos from the wedding of the star couple can be found online, as Rita Dakota very often shares all the bright events in her life.
It should not be overlooked that Rita Dakota, after learning about the addition to their family, launched her own personal diary. All fans could watch her preparations for the birth of her daughter, whom she had dreamed of for a long time.
Indescribable emotions, personal achievements, advice - all this could be found on a personal page on a social network. The most important thing is that the singer immediately said that as soon as she had a child, she would immediately report everything, this was done so that fans would stop asking unnecessary questions. This is exactly how life was before the birth of my daughter.
Rita Dakota has never hidden anything from her fans and tries to talk about all the events happening in her life. It is worth noting that the singer continued to work even in the last month before the birth of her child, this was evident from the photos she shared on social networks.
She continued to remain active, went shopping, visited beauty salons. Fans were simply waiting for reports that Rita Dakota had given birth to her first child. But this did not happen until October 25th. The young couple decided to leave themselves a few days to enjoy personal happiness and only then announced the addition to the family.
Personal life of the couple
The TV project “Star Factory” connected many young people together, some followed a creative path, others tied themselves in love. The seventh season of the presented television project was no exception. It was here that Rita Dakota first met the young talent Sokolovsky. At that time, no one could have thought that they would be able to create a full-fledged family. In 2007, on the project, they were friends who supported each other in all difficult situations, but there was no affection between them.
Together with Dmitry Bikbaev, Vlad creates a new musical group, which at one point became popular. The songs of young guys were heard almost everywhere, and sold-out concerts were organized. It was at this moment that the lives of Rita Dakota and Vlad Sokolovsky became disconnected. They worked in separate areas and built full-fledged careers. It should be noted that Vlad had a huge army of fans who dreamed of becoming his wife. There were no joint meetings between Vlad and Rita, but one party united their hearts.
After several years, Vlad and Rita met again at an event of a mutual friend. This meeting became significant in their relationship, as the young people became more mature, responsible and treated each other in a special way. As a result, a past love flared up between them, which simply could not be stopped. Soon fans learned about the upcoming wedding.
A joint vacation in Indonesia became incredibly fruitful for the star couple. This happened in 2015, when Vlad proposed getting married in a romantic setting in Bali. Rita did not doubt her desires for a second and happily agreed. The wedding was organized a few months later in Moscow. It was an incredible event, which was accompanied by a wedding in the church, and then a luxurious wedding.
Biography
Margarita Gerasimovich is the real name of the Russian singer Rita Dakota. The future star was born in 1990 on March 9 in Minsk. Despite the fact that the family did not live in the best conditions at that time, the parents did their best to create an excellent life for their daughter. Thus, she never needed anything. Musical interests have been traced since early childhood. Rita happily performed popular songs of that time and already at the age of 5 she wrote her first poem.
At the age of seven, Margarita went to music school. Here she managed to master a piano course, studied choral singing and achieved incredible results. All thanks to the fact that music came to her with particular ease. Little Rita visited various regions of the country with performances and very often won festivals and competitions. The first song, which was personally written by Rita, appeared at the age of eleven. It was an incredible composition that was the result of inspiration.
The first serious educational institution for her was to be the Glinka School. It was here that Rita met Gulnara Robertovna, who is a unique teacher who opened the way for young talent. Together with Rita, they recorded some songs and obtained copyrights. Margarita Gerasimovich is a very creative person who is interested in a wide variety of areas in art.
She took her first steps on stage in 2005. She was invited to participate in the Star Stagecoach talent competition, which was broadcast on television in Belarus. It was not possible to achieve victory, but Dakota was able to earn a not very good reputation. The jury noted the young girl's lack of patriotism, as she sang songs in English. We can say that such a situation could have a negative impact on the future of the singer. But Margarita’s unyielding character and her desire to become popular still helped her achieve incredible results.
Participation in the new television project “Star Factory” opened up incredible prospects for young Rita. At that time, she came alone from Belarus to Russia and was able to prove that she had incredible talent.
"Star Factory"
Since 2007, Rita Dakota began to gain popularity as a singer. She decides to attend the casting of the well-known television project “Star Factory. At that time, the producers were planning to launch the seventh season and were recruiting talented performers from all over the CIS. But Margarita had a completely different task: she wanted to provide the producers with recordings of her songs at the casting, but it turned out that she became a participant in the television project.
With every day of television filming, Rita dreamed more and more of returning home. But the support of friends helped her settle into the capital. Many participants in the seventh season of “Star Factory” were surprised at how talented Margarita Gerasimovich is.
On the show, Rita was able to distinguish herself in various areas. She performed not only songs, but also wrote lyrics on her own and helped others create songs. Her bright image and attractive appearance made her a popular person and a role model among millions of fans.
But after the end of the television project, the moment came when she was unable to realize herself in Russian show business. There was an incredible disappointment that could have deprived us of such a talented singer.
Creation
Monroe, that was the name of the first independent group that appeared thanks to Dakota. The singer herself clearly decided that show business does not attract her at all; it is a place where there is a lot of temptation, deception and cruelty.
Now Monroe is a participant in many famous domestic and foreign festivals. Various concerts are also organized throughout the Russian Federation, which attract a considerable number of fans. But when it became known that Rita Dakota gave birth to a daughter, many realized that in the coming year, the girl would definitely take a break from creativity.
In 2015, the singer was invited to participate in the “Main Stage” project, which was dedicated to musical talents. Together with Viktor Drobysh they reached the semi-final stage. Rita Dakota herself performed only her personal songs and works.
In 2016, the singer released a song called “Half a Man,” which brought incredible popularity to Margarita. The track was played on all domestic radio stations and was in rotation for a long time. All the fans were incredibly delighted with the work done. Subsequently, Rita Dakota set herself more ambitious goals for creating new songs and albums.
Addiction to the Indonesian island of Bali almost deprived many fans of such a talented singer. In February 2018, she was going to move permanently to a country where there is never frost, the warm sun is always warm and there is an incredible ocean nearby.
Rita Dakota and Vlad Sokolovsky in Bali
But later she changed her mind, because she wanted Bali to remain a fairy tale for her, which she could visit as often as possible. It soon became known that Rita Dakota gave birth to a daughter. Currently, everything is fine in the family.
28 year old Margarita Gerasimovich, better known as a singer Rita Dakota, continues to share touching photos and cute videos featuring his adorable daughter Mia.
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The baby just recently, at the end of October, cheerfully celebrated her first birthday. The star mom arranged a truly gorgeous celebration for her beloved daughter with giant soap bubbles, funny animators, a sea of confetti and a delicious cake.
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And the New Year holidays are just around the corner, which will also be the baby’s first. Rita has already managed to decorate the house and take part in a New Year's photo shoot with Mia.
And the other day, the famous mother gave her daughter a toy in the form of a symbol of the coming year - a pig, and brought the baby into absolute delight. Mia looks with all her eyes at the pink pig, who is dancing and making different sounds. And fans are touched by her childish reaction.
Mia is growing up to be a touching and very sweet girl. Not long ago, the singer told who is raising her. It turned out that Mia’s main teacher is her grandmother, Margarita’s mother. She is a teacher by training, so she does educational activities with her beloved granddaughter using her own patented methodology.
Mom won’t give Mia the opportunity to grow up stupid... says the star mom.
She herself prefers to play hide and seek or catch up with her daughter, believing that activities with her grandmother are quite enough for the full development of the baby.
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The celebrity also said that for her the main principle of raising her daughter is honesty.
I would like to respect her, listen to her, never put pressure on her, never persuade her to do anything - what my mother actually did to me.
Let us recall that in the summer of this year, the news about the divorce of Rita Dakota and the singer came out like a bolt from the blue. Vlad Sokolovsky who got married in June 2015. The daughter remained to live with her mother, who was wise enough to make peace with her ex-husband and allow him to see the baby.
Exactly one year old. On your first birthday Mia mother, writing on her microblog on Instagram that she is grateful to her daughter for “she chose her as her mother.” After meeting with Vlad Sokolovsky, Rita began to talk more often about how her daughter was the happiest and most valuable thing in her life. Despite the fact that the relationship between the ex-spouses can hardly be called friendly, the singer said that it would prevent her from communicating with Vlad. On his daughter's birthday, singer. Vlad noted that the girl is the best thing he and Rita have done in their entire lives.
Daughter of Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota Mia
In the evening, all her relatives and friends gathered to congratulate Mia on her birthday. The company had a great time in one of the restaurants in the capital. The singer also published a joint photo with her daughter and relatives on her microblog. “When we suddenly decided to have dinner before bed in honor of Miyushka’s birthday with his family. It’s just a very big family))) Thank you, my dears, for sharing this evening with us,” the star signed the photo (the author’s spelling and punctuation are given unchanged hereinafter. - Note ed.).
The daughter of Vlad Sokolovsky and Rita Dakota Mia celebrates her first birthday
The long day, full of joyful events, did not end there for the singer. Dakota still managed to run to the annual star award “Breakthrough of the Year - 2018” at the MODUS restaurant. “I only asked my daughter for 20 minutes, it’s her birthday today, I put her to bed and came running to you,” the star said. That evening, Dakota received the award in the category “Best Creative Project,” thus proving that she brilliantly manages to combine career and motherhood.“When they put Mia to bed, and after that they managed to work as a singer... I am holding in my hands the statuette “BEST CREATIVE PROJECT” of the Breakthrough of the Year award. Thank you to the organizers of this holiday and everyone who considered my work worthy of such awards. This is valuable and expensive,” Dakota wrote on the microblog, posting a photo from the event.
On her daughter's birthday, Rita Dakota left her for a party
Let us remind you that the organizers of the award also appreciated DIVA’s grandiose show and awarded her the main prize in the category “Best Concert Show” - a trip to the Maldives. , in turn, received an award in the category “Best Duet” for the song “Thank you, heart,” which she sang together with Mitya Fomin. Both singers came to the award in elegant black suits and.
